Boys don’t cry; men express their emotions.
Boys avoid uncomfortable conversations; men initiate them.
Boys rate girls on a 1-10 scale; men rate them on a 0 to 1 scale
(“am I interested or not?”)
Boys worry about what to text girls; men worry about connecting with the right one.
Boys rank themselves on their ability to provide financially; men judge themselves on their ability to create the life they want.
Boys are controlling; men have self control.
Boys think “clothes make the man”; men make themselves.
Boys talk shit; men seek truth.
Boys have sex to come; men arrive at a new destination.
Boys ghost, men sunset relationships.
Boys want to make money. Men want to create value.
Boys seek validation; men seek freedom.
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