boys-to-men-masculinity-maturity

Boys vs men

Boys don’t cry; men express their emotions.

Boys avoid uncomfortable conversations; men initiate them.

Boys rate girls on a 1-10 scale; men rate them on a 0 to 1 scale
(“am I interested or not?”)

Boys worry about what to text girls; men worry about connecting with the right one.

Boys rank themselves on their ability to provide financially; men judge themselves on their ability to create the life they want.

Boys are controlling; men have self control.

Boys think “clothes make the man”; men make themselves.

Boys talk shit; men seek truth.

Boys have sex to come; men arrive at a new destination.

Boys ghost, men sunset relationships.

Boys want to make money. Men want to create value.

Boys seek validation; men seek freedom.


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